Goodbye

I dont know what hurts the most; saying goodbye to someone realizing that there not comeing back, or not even getting the chance to say goodbye to them. Ive been through both, where i have had the chance to say goodbye, but just letting them go as they walk out of your life, and ive also been to that place where you dont even get a chance to have your goodbyes, where there just gone. And you have no idea when they may come back, or if they even will.

Its hard sometimes, i meen sometimes we try to avoid the truth, keeping us diss-illusiond with what is put out right in front of us, weither its, ' that person is leaving' or its ' that person has already left ' .

Has someone ever left your life all of a sudden but yet a part of you is still holding on?
Have you ever said your goodbye, and then after having that person leave, you start to realize how much you need them in your life.
and lastly ,
Have you ever missed out on that one goodbye that meant forever.
that one goodbye that would meen so much, if you could just look into that persons eyes again, and realize that nothing is ever determined in this life.

Where things change, people change all the time, and our hearts change too.
I guess we all just need to stop and take a look and realize what "Goodbye" really means.